The Miracle Within

Shabbat Candle Lighting Times for Moscow, Russia Friday, August 26th Light Candles at 19:20 Shabbat, August 27th, Shabbat Ends 20:37 Torah Portion: Eikev

The Miracle Within "Okay Rabbi, now can we ask you some questions?" That was the challenge posed to me recently by some teens I was teaching. They really give me a run for my money -- their inquisitive questioning always has me looking for answers. "So," one of them pressed, "if it was so important for G d to make miracles, why doesn't He do them today?" The ensuing discussion drew the whole group into a debate about if, when and why miracles are relevant. The students recognized that there are miracles, great miracles, that accompany us on a daily basis, and that there are G dly people in every generation who are endowed with Divine super-natural powers. But, they argued, what about the earth-shattering, plain-for-all-to-see variety of miracles that typified the biblical era? Where – and why – have they gone? I breathed a real sigh of relief when my suggested answer finally got a thumbs-up from my hitherto skeptical colleagues. Though I must add, the idea wasn't mine. I found it in Eikev, this week's Torah reading. The ups and downs of Jewish history – the miraculous highs, the tragic lows, and the plateaus of calm in between – are well captured in the Torah readings of the last two weeks. Last week, in Va'etchanan, we read of the epic high of our story, the moment of revelation on Sinai that shaped our identity forever. No moment before or after that episode conveys the essence of Jewish faith like that experience of unity with the Divine in the desert sun. And I can well understand why my new young friends wished that they, too, were given such an opportunity. This week, however, our story takes us to our lowest fall, the episode of the Golden Calf. Only a short 40 days after the grand Sinai revelation, a crisis of faith put our existence in peril. The subsequent journey of repentance and return presaged what later became known as Yom Kippur, the Jewish holiday of reflection and renewal. This part of the story, the void of revelation and vacuum of divine presence, is something that I think my students appreciated all too well. Interestingly, both of these stories are followed by almost identical statements of faith that we recite at least twice daily. The Ten Commandments in last week's portion is followed by the Shema, and then, in the paragraph's second verse: "And you shall love G d, your G d..." In this week's portion, the failing at the critical moment of Moses' absence and our ultimate triumph over failure is followed by the second paragraph of the Shema: "And if you will listen," many of whose words are a copy from the first paragraph of the Shema read the week before. Despite their similarity, the subtle differences between the prayer's first and second paragraphs offer perhaps the key to our survival, and our purpose, in the thousands of years since those miraculous moments transpired—and never repeated themselves again. I'll suggest just two of them. 1. In the first paragraph, the level of our love for and relationship with G d reaches an epic high – "bechol m'odecha" ("with all your might") – which implies the highest level of selfless service for G d. Shedding any self-enhancing motive, we are asked to reach a level of unity with the Divine where our whole purpose is only to fulfill our mission. This is a manifestation of the very core of our soul, which is one with its Creator. In the second paragraph, however, this level is omitted. We are asked there "only" to love G d "bechol levavechem uvechol nafshechem" ("with all your heart and soul"). Yes, that's quite an achievement, but at least one that is within our reach if we will it. 2. In the first paragraph there is no mention of reward and consequence. In the second, our relationship with G d is very much intertwined with the fulfillment of our needs -- health, wealth, happiness, fulfillment -- or the lack thereof. Perhaps these two approaches to divine service are hinting at two different eras in our history. The first reflects our story in the glow of divine revelation -- the splitting of the sea, the Sinai experience, the Holy Temple in Jerusalem, etc. In that time and place, yes, perhaps the inspiration, the certainty and the absolute knowledge that we gained from those experiences filled us with motivation and ability to follow a selfless path of total piety with no care for gain or reward. The second approach, however, follows our story in the shadow of divine concealment and spiritual confusion -- whether at the foot of the mountain on the supposed fortieth day, or in a classroom in Cape Town 2,000 years after the miracles of the Temple ceased to be. In these times our relationship with G d is one where: 1. Our selfish identity remains very much at the fore; we're not on the level of selfless unity with G d like those of a previous era. 2. Our reasons for serving G d are very much because of the gains – be they spiritual, emotional, or even material – that we see this lifestyle brings. On the surface, one might think that the first approach represents the more ideal aspiration of the Jewish people. In truth, however, it's – in a certain way – the second, more integrated approach that has a deeper and more long-lasting effect. When there aren't miracles to inspire us, we have to find the faith within. We need to initiate, to explore, to study and to appreciate what our relationship with G d really means. True, sitting in a classroom and grappling with these ideas at the foot of Table Mountain in South Africa is not nearly as inspiring as sitting at the foot of Mount Sinai when they were revealed to us. It's not as inspiring, and it's far more challenging—but it's a far greater achievement. It says much more about us, as opposed to the revelation at Mount Sinai, which spoke more about G d. Today, when we don't have the miraculous stories to solidify our beliefs, we have to find that strength within. And that is a true miracle. The moments of G d's open miracles set the foundation of our people. But now it's our miracles, miracles of faith and conviction that build the story of our people. And that, our story, is the greatest miracle of all. My eleventh-grade group seemed to think so. How about you? Shabbat Shalom! Rabbi Yanky and Rivky Klein

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What A Smile

Shabbat Candle Lighting Times for Moscow, Russia Friday, September 16th Light Candles at 18:26

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Shabbat, September 17th, Shabbat Ends 19:37 Torah Portion: Ki Teitzei

What A Smile Do you smile? There are different types of smiles. There's the raised-corners-of-the-mouth social smile, which is basically the deliberate flexing of facial muscles to telegraph polite positivity. But there’s also the genuine, full-faced smile; the one that’s clearly proclaiming “welcome, I’m making room for you in my life.” That smile is larger than the simple movement of facial muscles and cordial interactions. That smile is a gesture that transcends simple facial expressions; it’s about offering yourself to another. A real smile means you’ve removed some of the walls between you and the world, that some ‘inner you’ is connecting with an ‘other.’ When you're on the phone, can you sometimes tell that the other person is smiling, even though you can’t see their face? When someone is genuinely smiling, his voice has a lilt of giving and openness, a flow of bonding, an embracing spirit that goes way beyond facial expressions. Polite smiles don’t express that kind of depth, because they aren’t that deep. They don't come across the phone. The Torah describes G-d as blessing us by '"shining His face" upon us, as though G-d is giving us a glowing, full-faced smile. There’s a friendly face, and then there’s a glowing face. There’s a smile, and then there’s a full-bodied smile. The difference may be difficult to describe, even intangible, but it's huge. You know it when it happens. This Jewish month of Elul, the lead-up to Rosh Hashana, is a time when we’re told that G-d is giving us a full-faced smile, an open welcome into a caring relationship. How do you respond to an open smile? Smile back. Care enough to give someone a genuine smile today. Find the faith and connection to give G-d a genuine smile today. Get into the Rosh Hashana rhythm. Shabbat Shalom! Rabbi Yanky and Rivky Klein

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Millions of stars

Shabbat Candle Lighting Times for Moscow, Russia Friday, August 12th Light Candles at 19:54 Shabbat, August 13th, Shabbat Ends 21:17 Torah Portion: Devarim

Holmes and Watson are on a camping trip. In the middle of the night Holmes wakes up and gives Dr. Watson a nudge. "Watson" he says, "look up in the sky and tell me what you see." "I see millions of stars, Holmes," says Watson. "And what do you conclude from that, Watson?" Watson thinks for a moment. "Well," he says, "astronomically, it tells me that there are millions of galaxies and potentially billions of planets. Astrologically, I observe that Saturn is in Leo. Horologically, I deduce that the time is approximately a quarter past three. Meterologically, I suspect that we will have a beautiful day tomorrow. Theologically, I see that God is all-powerful, and we are small and insignficant. Uh, what does it tell you, Holmes?" "Watson, you idiot! Someone has stolen our tent! Dear friends, "Our home has been burned!" It happened a few thousand years ago, on Tisha B'Av, the 9th of Av. From that faithful day on we've been living without our holy temple in Jerusalem. Sometimes we forget about its existence. We get ourselves used to life as it is... busy with our day to day events. Our lives would look completely different if the holy temple would be standing. Every aspect of our life, not just our spiritual life. This Sunday we commemorate the 9th of Av and we fast. (click here for more info) May it be G-d's will that the Temple should be rebuild and we will finally experience the redemption, with all the eternal good that comes with it! Shabbat Shalom! Rabbi Yanky and Rivky Klein

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A Legacy of Love!

Shabbat Candle Lighting Times for Moscow, Russia Friday, November 11th Light Candles at 16:11

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Shabbat, November 12th, Shabbat Ends 17:28 Torah Portion: Lech Lecha

A Legacy of Love! What is love? Love is closeness. Even more, it’s whole-hearted, committed closeness. The heart’s warm flutter can be fleeting infatuation, here today and gone tomorrow. Love is different. It’s substantive. Real. Love is a bond that stands strong in the face of day-to-day volatility, an emotional anchor that’s unshaken by life’s waves. Love is other-centered devotion. There’s a Chassidic story about a child who watches an adult catch and prepare a fish. Before his first bite, the adult exclaims “I love fish.” The child responds: “Sir, you apparently don’t love fish; if you did, you would have let this one stay in the water. You actually love yourself, and this fish is just another avenue for feeding your self-love!” Genuine love isn’t about us gratifying ourselves (although that may be a nice by-product). Love is about making space for the other’s needs. Love is when the other’s sensitivities become our personal concern. Sometimes, looking after our personal needs is a part of other-centeredness. If I take a day to care for myself, so that I am better fit to discharge my responsibilities to G-d, to life and the world, I’m still living a day of other-consciousness. Meeting my own needs can be a necessary preparation for fulfilling my responsibility to others. In Torah language, this deeply committed, loving relationship is called a Covenant (Bris in Hebrew); it’s when two parties reach a profound, integral Oneness. That’s what Abraham had going with G-d. Abraham made genuine space in his life for G-d. Abraham’s definition of a ‘meaningful life’ was to be the person who G-d had created him to be. So his material endeavors, including his ‘self-gratifying pursuits,’ were all opportunities for deepening – and expressing - his devotion to living a meaningful life. That’s why G-d commanded him to express their Covenant by marking an area of the physical body which symbolizes the pursuit of pleasurable physical engagement. To Abraham, all of life – even the pleasurable part - was all about reaching his/our Divinely-granted goal of finding deep connectedness with others and making this a better world. Life was all about the Covenant, all about mindfulness of higher Purpose. Abraham showed us how to live life as it’s meant to be lived. Shabbat Shalom! Rabbi Yanky and Rivky Klein

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The Journey

Shabbat Candle Lighting Times for Moscow, Russia Friday, August 5th Light Candles at 20:09 Shabbat, July 30th, Shabbat Ends 21:36 Torah Portion: Matot-Massei

The Journey They say life is a journey. That feels like a true statement, but it leaves me with a bunch of questions: A journey to which destination? What if I don't end up anywhere worthwhile? What if I mess up and take a wrong turn? And how do we know life is actually a deliberate journey? It sometimes feels like a runaway train. The Torah is our model for life, so let's look there for direction. When the Jews left Egypt, they headed toward the Promised Land. Leaving slavery behind, they embarked on a forty-year journey to their homeland, encamping at forty-two stops along the way. Our Sages tell us that this famous episode is more than historical; it's actually a template for each of our lives through history. In other words, we’re each headed through our own personal desert to our own Promised Land, with our individual stops and stumbles along the way. You and I don't live in the desert, but there's importance relevance to the imagery. The desert isn’t a pleasant place; it's not somewhere you can expect to find the comforts of civilization. The desert traveler needs to focus on survival, to pay sharp attention to each step. In that sense, even the city can be a desert. At the same time, one can conceivably make even a desert journey into a positive experience. What if we build solid relationships with our co-travelers? What if our desert experience actually becomes a stepping-stone for character growth and development? When all is said and done, even a desert trip – challenges and all - can be a gift. It can be the route to our personal Promised Land. The Jews made some missteps over the forty years in the desert. Some of them were serious mistakes. But they learned and grew from those mistakes. So even if they ‘took a step backward’ in a specific incident, their ultimate growth took them ‘two steps forward.’ They learned from those negative experiences, becoming healthier and stronger human beings for the experience. When the Jews finally approached their destination, they were grateful. Not just for the destination, but for the journey that brought them there. Today will almost certainly have challenges. They may cause you to wonder about the whole journey. Don't sweat it. Put one foot in front of the other and take a step forward. You'll be happy you did. Shabbat Shalom! Rabbi Yanky and Rivky Klein

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Dancing with the Divine

Shabbat Candle Lighting Times for Moscow, Russia Friday, July 29th Light Candles at 20:23 Shabbat, July 30th, Shabbat Ends 21:55 Torah Portion: Pinchas

Dancing with the Divine Self-sufficient. Dependent. We’ll take the former. Think of your most vulnerable moment. A time when your security nets were insufficient, and it seemed like there was no one to catch you. That pit-in-your- stomach despair is a feeling nobody wants to experience. On the other hand, remember when you were embraced by someone who had the power to handle your problems; someone who loved you and was wholly concerned with your welfare. Like a parent caring for a baby. Safety at its best. We all want to feel secure. But that feeling brings its own challenge: We usually take it for granted. When a protective power is warding off problems in your life, then - unless it’s before your eyes - you tend to take it in stride. How can you feel saved if you haven’t had an opportunity to internalize the threat? Aside from the lack of thankfulness, we relax our own efforts while basking in the protective shade. Watch small children. They usually have no idea what we’re doing to protect them, and they take their security for granted. And the more we coddle them, the more we potentially disempower their own efforts at achieving genuine security. Think of American society pre 9/11. Most of us took our safety from terrorism for granted, and there seemed little need for personal efforts at self-protection. Then we woke up to the truth of our vulnerability. Safety vs. Vulnerability. Two poles in our delicate dance with G-d. G-d is our Rock, our ultimate security. When you genuinely trust G-d, you sleep easier. Yet we can’t take G-d’s protection for granted. We need to recognize humanity’s intrinsic frailty, thank G-d for His protection, do what we can to help ourselves, and trust the Divine for the future. Think of the Jews in the desert. They went to bed without any food for the next day (vulnerable). Yet they firmly trusted that the manna would fall the next morning and satisfy their needs. It’s an important model. The spiritually-connected person doesn’t get up in the morning feeling invincible because G-d will protect him/her. We take pause to recognize every human’s intrinsic vulnerability. Then we thank G-d for our blessings, and find trust for the future in a loving, protective G-d. It’s confidence with gratitude and humility. A great way to live your day. Shabbat Shalom! Rabbi Yanky and Rivky Klein

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Summer Thoughts

Shabbat Candle Lighting Times for Moscow, Russia Friday, July 22nd Light Candles at 20:36 Shabbat, July 23rd, Shabbat Ends 22:13 Torah Portion: Balak

Summer Thoughts Are you getting away this summer? Taking some weekends off? Maybe a week or two abroad? These months are commonly a time to slow things down a bit, or at least carve out more time for 'self' and family. After all it's summer, and summer has a special rhythm. Each season has its own unique beat. As we move through the days, months and years, we need to pause and identify each season's tempo, embrace its particular character and grow with it. So, let’s think about summer: What is particularly striking about this season? Obviously, summer is a time of increased light and warmth; we have longer daylight hours, and higher temperatures. In other words, summer is a time when the sun is in fuller glory and effect. Now think about your own internal seasons. There are times when we go through an internal winter, when our internal ‘sun’ - the soul – doesn’t seem to be shining, when our moral vision and priorities don’t express their full light into our daily lives. There are times when conscience and values are in relative hibernation, when the spirit is cold, and personality growth seems a part of the distant past. Then there’s my internal ‘summer.’, when my internal sun shines. My soul summer is about feeling the internal capacity for spirituality and warmth. So if I’m able to relax a bit from the everyday stresses and ‘get away’, then I need to use that opportunity to synchronize myself with nature; I need to connect with my own internal summer by increasing the light and warmth in my life. We each have valuable relationships - with loved ones, with our community and with our G-d – and relationships need nurturing. So if you’re running on fewer cylinders this summer, and have some extra space in your brain and heart, those relationships could probably use some extra warmth. You have an internal sun. Let it shine. Shabbat Shalom! Rabbi Yanky and Rivky Klein

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Living the Rhythms

Shabbat Candle Lighting Times for Moscow, Russia Friday, July 15th Light Candles at 20:46 Shabbat, July 16th, Shabbat Ends 22:30 Torah Portion: Chukat

Living the Rhythms Years ago, I was standing with a friend, a seasoned businessman, as his 38 year-old son walked by. Nodding toward his son, he muttered to me: “My son needs to understand that the stock market doesn’t always go up”. It was an interesting insight for me. You don’t understand life until you grasp the human journey’s comprehensive rhythm; until you appreciate that living is about ups and downs. Ups and Downs. If anyone thinks they’ve experienced only one, they’re either mistaken or need to wait just a wee-bit longer; the other will come soon enough. We all have both. But ‘down’ is where we feel the pain. Stress isn’t pleasant, and problems are….problems. But that is life; and, until Moshiach arrives, problems will continue to disrupt our lives. And so much of life depends on how we deal with problems. Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak Schneersohn, the 6th Lubavitcher Rebbe, was brutally imprisoned - for spreading Judaism and helping Jews - by Stalin’s regime. Yet, years after reaching freedom, he would occasionally try to recapture the horrible experience, mentally transporting himself back to the gulag and its pain. Why? Not because he enjoyed the pain and suffering. But because he valued the character, the strength of Principle, he encountered within himself. The Rebbe never looked for pain, but when it came his way he didn’t waste effort on blame and self-pity; he faced it with dignity, and it became a growth experience. Today, Thursday, 12 Tammuz (June 20) is eighty-six years since the Previous Rebbe was finally given the wonderful news of his freedom from Soviet prison. It’s a day when we celebrate freedom. It’s also a day when we remember the pain. And it’s a day when we search ourselves to find our own inner strength to help us survive, and grow through, life’s pain. Because that is – in the final analysis – true freedom of character and soul. L’chaim. Shabbat Shalom! Rabbi Yanky and Rivky Klein

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The Rebbe!

Shabbat Candle Lighting Times for Moscow, Russia Friday, July 8th Light Candles at 20:53 Shabbat, July 9th, Shabbat Ends 22:44 Torah Portion: Korach

Tomorrow, Saturday, July 9th, marks twenty two years since the passing of the Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem M. Schneerson, of righteous memory. I am in New York, joining many thousands of people from across the globe who will be visiting the Rebbe's holy resting place for prayer on this auspicious day, as is customary when we commemorate the Yartzeit of a righteous person. It would be an honor and pleasure to pray for you (and your family), as well, at the Rebbe's "Ohel." Please e-mail me your name and your mother's name (preferably the Hebrew or Yiddish names), and those of anyone else you would like me to mention, I would be glad to have them in mind as well. If there's a specific need you would like me to pray for, please mention it as well. May all our prayers be fulfilled. We've posted lots of information to help you learn more about the Rebbe's devotion to G-d, discover how deeply he cared for each human being, and to glean insight into his teachings. The Rebbe would frequently insist that even the loftiest of thoughts must be translated into actual deed. Please join us on this special day in learning something additional, reciting an additional prayer, and giving some extra charity. Let us also try and apply some of the Rebbe's care and selfless dedication to our own interaction with family, friends and total strangers. There can be no more fitting tribute to the Rebbe than millions of good deeds, mitzvot, performed on his day. May G-d help us that in the merit of our collective acts of goodness we quickly greet our righteous Moshiach, at which time we will be reunited with our beloved Rebbe and all our loved ones. Sincerely, Shabbat Shalom! Rabbi Yanky and Rivky Klein

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Living life to the fullest

Shabbat Candle Lighting Times for Moscow, Russia Friday, July 1st Light Candles at 20:58 Shabbat, July 2nd, Shabbat Ends 22:55 Torah Portion: Shelach

Why do we do what we do? So often, we know that we shouldn't act a certain way; and then we go do it anyway. Maybe it's eating french fries after the doctor warned against it; maybe it's disrespecting a valued relationship. When we sit in quiet contemplation, I think most of us have sound moral compasses and a healthy sense of right and wrong. The problem is that we're not always sitting quietly in contemplation. The problem lies in our lack of consciousness. When I'm fully aware – truly aware - of my gifts and values, I'm much more likely to honor them. When I'm actively conscious of my tremendous blessings, my life, family and friends, my actions will reflect that awareness. The trick is in remaining conscious; since the human psyche naturally gravitates toward a back-of-the-mind, taking for granted, automatic-pilot operating system. This is a reason that Judaism has so many awareness-triggers. When I walk into a room and see the mezuzah, it should raise my consciousness. The mezuzah reminds me that the room – bedroom, kitchen, den etc. – isn't simply a place to pursue a narrow, de-contextualized exercise (eating, sleeping etc.); it's a venue for pursuing my overall objective of a meaningful life (through eating, sleeping etc.). My Tzitzit (the Biblically-required fringes that hang from the little 'Talit' I wear under my shirt) are a mnemonic, a consciousness-prod. When I see them, I need to remember I have a destiny and a reason for existence; and that my next actions should reflect that life-objective. So it's about consciousness. If I check my 'consciousness meter' as often as I check for my wallet or keys, my 'internal traffic-controller' will perk up. I'll be able to consciously choose, and fully invest myself in, my next moves of the day. Internally, I become more internally 'alive'. And in this journey of life, 'alive' is the way to go. Shabbat Shalom! Rabbi Yanky and Rivky Klein

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